There are things that drift away
Like our endless numbered days
Autumn blew the quilt right off the perfect bed she made
And she’s chosen to believe
In the hymns her mother sings
Sunday pulls its children from their piles of fallen leaves
-Iron & Wine, Passing Afternoon
I was allowed wild. I spent days in the sunshine, gathering dirt into a big metal bucket, spraying water from the hose, mixing it into a consistency just right for my purposes. A rusty-but-solid metal table served as a perfect oven for the discs of earth I formed. I sat in the grass while they baked in the sun, caught garter snakes, picked at scabs, had big romantic thoughts about being a pioneer. Over and over.
Repetition and big open spaces of time. Sun-soaked skin. Dirt-perfumed hair. My soul was well-tended.
Messing around with dirt is a hopeful act–investing in beauty and nourishment together, trusting in the eventual delight of the senses. It implies not living day-to-day. It implies rootedness. It implies faith and looking forward to the future. When my precious cakes were ready, I’d gleefully break them apart, scrub off the metal table, stack my kitchen supplies and look forward to doing it all again the next day.
I learned something nameless in those hours, but left it outside the doors of church because it wouldn’t fit through. Two messages came to me in those days; two ideas planted way down deep.
One: this life matters in and of itself.
Two: this life only matters in the context of the next.
I hope what is true will root down and remain, and what is false will simply float away, like I used to think I would do someday.
Standing to have the ash smeared on my forehead felt like a reunion with what I used to know: it’s no waste of time to live here. I’m growing less afraid to salute the sun after knowing a dense cloud of gray days. My children instinctively flow out the door like a thawed creek, digging for worms and gathering sticks, oblivious to time. I spend time pulling off winter-soaked foliage to reveal richly dark soil underneath. My fingers bleed and my nails are black; they look honest to me.
I was given, in part, a religion of earth. I was given time. Baptized in a deep river, sun-grown during all those solitary days, with a seed planted that fearful, contained systems have kept dormant far too long. I choose to risk it now.
I’ll take the possibility of being wrong in exchange for not needing to make the up-springing of green things my enemy.
I will love it here. I will make a home here, dig down and let the cool soil soothe my burning hands, after so many years of snatching them out of hellfire.
Oh, to see again what the little girl knew. All the good is God.
4 responses to “all the good”
This, may be the most profound and true thing I have ever read. Beneath your words there beats a heart of clay, living clay that has been shaped and re-shaped so many times that its surface bears the marks of one billion fingerprints.
Your words smell musky like the soil, and green like new life.
Emily, this filled me with tears of joy. It is so good that you are a mother. You are living proof of unconditional love, that you are made in the image of Jesus.
As one who loves to plunge her hands in the dirt and spend as many lazy summer days on the lake or in the woods as possible, thank you for the permission: “it’s no waste of time to live here.”
Such beautiful language and imagery– I just want to underline and highlight and star everything 🙂 “My fingers bleed and my nails are black; they look honest to me.” Love this. And “Repetition and big open spaces of time. Sun-soaked skin. Dirt-perfumed hair. My soul was well-tended.” This is what I wish for my own kids.